That is heart breaking Dave. It’s a shame you’ll be a fair ways away from your family. Perhaps one of them will be able to make a move to be close by.
Corruption is everywhere and always has been. It is effecting all of us one way or another. Right now you are being hit very hard. Too bad the world is so big or some of us would gladly help with your load. May your marriage stay strong and your horizon be level. Screw the idiots